Christian recovery: Identifying Issues
When I think of betrayal in a Biblical sense, Judas comes to mind. I have never understood how a disciple of Jesus could betray the Messiah. Judas was one of the chosen ones. He had continual access to the Son of God and first-hand knowledge of the teachings of Jesus. And he was part of a covenant relationship – a brotherhood – with the 11 other disciples. That’s why the betrayal of Judas against Jesus is a mystery to me and everyone else who reads the story. But so is the betrayal of many Christians in addiction who plot against their own families, friends and communities for their personal gain.
The reason
betrayal is so painful is because by definition it is a “deliberate act of
disloyalty.” In other words, betrayal doesn’t happen by accident. Betrayal
requires plotting and planning. And there is no doubt that the life of a drug
addict is all about scheming. Sadly, the first victims are the people closest
to the addict, usually the loved ones. The addict, like Judas, goes behind the
back of those who are the most loyal to them. They create lies, manipulations
and methods in order to steal from others so they can feed their addiction.
They do it deliberately and at the expense of the ones they are kissing on the
cheek.
Betrayal by
addicts becomes a lifestyle and the result is a long line of people they hurt. This
includes Christians in addiction who have become experts at playing the grace
and mercy game. These addicts know how to work on the faithful and how to
‘manage’ those closest to them, especially those who are prone to guilt.
In The
Solid Rock Road, we don’t just work with Christians in addiction, we work with
those who have been betrayed by them. If you need help sorting things out, you
can call 541-778-8780. For more info on the Solid Rock Road Christian Recovery
ministry, visit www.thesolidrockroad.com. You can also follow us on Facebook and Twitter.
