Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Wow! Isn’t this book timely! As a seminal approach in a world needing drug and alcohol solutions, this could just be that book.
Jamee Rae Pineda and Sherry Colby have written a groundbreaking book with Follow The Solid Rock Road: Pathway to Radical Recovery, which addresses a deep philosophical split in drug and alcohol treatment.
While most addiction treatments keep people on a perpetual path of coping, Jamee and Sherry open the door to freedom in God and set people on the path to achieve it. Initially, this path doesn’t seem to differ much from existing recovery systems, but it ultimately results in irreconcilable differences.
Follow The Solid Rock Road teaches that one finds freedom through the teachings of Jesus Christ, His atonement, and having an honest walk with God. The 10 Principles of The Solid Rock Road describe how one can identify their addiction, address their addiction, and subsequently be delivered from it.
This work is not bogged down with stodgy or clinical verbiage but is interspersed with anecdotal evidence that illustrates how these principles work. The personal stories from the lives of Jamee and Sherry are transparent and refreshing. Thank you for this level of honesty. It is quite helpful in showing that the 10 Bible-based Principles are more than untested theories, but instead have been applied and proven.
The book is sprinkled with life application exercises and hard-hitting questions. When completed, these will bring a person to self awareness and true change. This is a valuable handbook for life transformation.
Another important aspect of this book is that it can be used individually or in group settings. The final great feature is that the authors offer personal help and interaction for those involved in this process – the addicted, loved ones of the addicted, ministry leaders, and pastors.
As stated in this book, why walk The Yellow Brick Road when we can get on The Solid Rock Road?
-- By Pastor Steve Schmelzer
To read the book Follow The Solid Rock Road: Pathway to Radical Recovery, go to www.thesolidrockroad.com or to Amazon.com at http://www.amazon.com/Follow-Solid-Rock-Road-Recovery/dp/0615337899. You can also follow the Christian recovery ministry on twitter and Facebook.
Saturday, April 2, 2011
The Solid Rock Road recovery team has heard it all! People who aren't ready to change blame their relapse on everything and everyone but themselves. Even when they admit they blew it, they justify their actions and blame-shift.
At a conference in Seattle that The Solid Rock Road team attended, the speaker asked the audience what the opposite of learning was. We all looked at each other, but none of us could answer it. Then he said something that confirmed what we’ve been teaching in our recovery ministry from the day God called us into it. “The opposite of learning is blaming,” he said.
As recovery counselors, we often do more listening than talking. We can tell when someone has had enough of their addiction and its consequence, and when they haven't. We hear and see repentance, and we can spot those who aren't finished taking and blaming.
When people blame others for their problems and addictions, they aren’t learning the lessons God is trying to teach them. And since God never gives up on the lesson, they will go around the same mountain a million times until He thinks they get it.
The following are some of the main excuses Christians have for their relapse. We gathered these by asking and listening to the truth behind it all.
• No one will know. I can get away with it.
• No one really cares.
• I’m only hurting myself.
• My family and friends will forgive me in the end.
• God will forgive me, so why not?
• I’m bored and lonely.
• I’m hurt or angry and I’ll show them.
• I can’t stand the pain anymore.
• People are always hurting or burning me.
• I don’t know what else to do.
• I can’t help myself.
• I’m one of those people who just can’t quit.
• I need to escape.
• I need one last fling and then it will be over.
• I’ve been good a long time so I deserve a good high.
• I need to remember how it feels to get high.
• Being a Christian is too hard.
• People are expecting way too much of me.
• I have too much pressure.
The bottom line is that everyone is busy, pressured, suffering, insecure, fearful and in need of a vacation from life. But we are called to be overcomers as Christians, and to be givers, not takers.
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